My Church has a Praise and Worship Leader who has currently left his wife for a woman he has been cheating on his wife with for 2 years of their marriage. He has lied to the whole Church Family and…Continue
"I dont get what you are saying here.
"First of all we can't restore him nor can he restore himself."
Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness;…"
"I agree with that. You are right. There "may" need to be a setting down for a "period of time". That has to be determined by each case and by the leadership staff. (Most of the time it is like they get shut out FOREVER.)
thanks for the kind reply. If the man's heart is not repentant (I must say this is key to restoration) and the Pastor has still not removed him, maybe it is time you find another place to worship. I would say by staying you would be…"
This did not come from the guilty party himself. I was a Church member until the unfolding of the praise and worship leaders marriage fell apart, new mistress appeared, and became pregnant all unfolded in the church. As for the Pastor, he…"
"Please do not take this as an attack. I do not mean it as such. I think many of the replies are very biblical and restoration should be the goal if the man has a repentant heart. But I am also wondering how is this information known? Did this come…"
My intentions are to help the Church as well as the Pastor see, that this situation is not in alienment with God's Word and that this sutuation needs to be corrected. If the praise and worship leader is taken down, maybe the restoration…"
I really wanted to reply to your second thought:
"Just because he fell and fell hard doesn't mean that they cant serve somewhere in the church."
I'm not so sure that allowing them to serve in any capacity "FOR A…"
"If this is a real question.
Then set him down and restore him. When he has repented and has a track record of growth again then place him back on the stage.
1. We all sin! This is not about sin, this is about reputation and…"
"I think that you may need to begin shopping for another church. If the structure is that disfunctional or corrupt, it is in critical condition and quite possibly circling the drain. There are many more churches out there that are at least slightly…"
""...How we respond to them is also a matter of worship."I love this statement Roger. We should always keep in mind our every action is an act of worship. the only question is WHO is the object of our worship. God Bless all and I will be…"
"Thanks for the back up Ken I appreciate it. To many God wanna be's here with their judging of me. I was just looking for some oponions and help with the situation at my former Church is all. Thanks again"
"Sin is already judged by God... some churches struggle is because they want to be somewhat lilke the world...tolerant of shortcomings...welll we all struggle ,but Jesus died and when we get a true understand of what happend at Calvary there is no…"