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Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????

Started this discussion. Last reply by David Estes Sep 28, 2009. 49 Replies

My Church has a Praise and Worship Leader who has currently left his wife for a woman he has been cheating on his wife with for 2 years of their marriage. He has lied to the whole Church Family and…Continue

 

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David Estes replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"I dont get what you are saying here. "First of all we can't restore him nor can he restore himself." Gal 6:1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness;…"
Sep 28, 2009
David Estes replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"I agree with that. You are right. There "may" need to be a setting down for a "period of time". That has to be determined by each case and by the leadership staff. (Most of the time it is like they get shut out FOREVER.) I have…"
Sep 25, 2009
Lil replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Hi again~ thanks for the kind reply. If the man's heart is not repentant (I must say this is key to restoration) and the Pastor has still not removed him, maybe it is time you find another place to worship. I would say by staying you would be…"
Sep 22, 2009
justme replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Lil, This did not come from the guilty party himself. I was a Church member until the unfolding of the praise and worship leaders marriage fell apart, new mistress appeared, and became pregnant all unfolded in the church. As for the Pastor, he…"
Sep 22, 2009
Lil replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Please do not take this as an attack. I do not mean it as such. I think many of the replies are very biblical and restoration should be the goal if the man has a repentant heart. But I am also wondering how is this information known? Did this come…"
Sep 22, 2009
justme replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"What if this man does not repent and feels he is living his life right? He has already stated that God has released him from his marriage so that he can start over with his "NEW LIFE"!"
Sep 18, 2009
justme replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Mike, My intentions are to help the Church as well as the Pastor see, that this situation is not in alienment with God's Word and that this sutuation needs to be corrected. If the praise and worship leader is taken down, maybe the restoration…"
Sep 18, 2009
David Prentice replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"David, I really wanted to reply to your second thought: "Just because he fell and fell hard doesn't mean that they cant serve somewhere in the church." I'm not so sure that allowing them to serve in any capacity "FOR A…"
Sep 17, 2009
Rick Cogbill replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Amen, David."
Sep 17, 2009
David Estes replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"If this is a real question. Then set him down and restore him. When he has repented and has a track record of growth again then place him back on the stage. Some thoughts 1. We all sin! This is not about sin, this is about reputation and…"
Sep 17, 2009
daniel cash replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Dude/Dudette, I think she just meant "the person who started the discussion thread." Chillax :)"
Sep 12, 2009
daniel cash replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"I think that you may need to begin shopping for another church. If the structure is that disfunctional or corrupt, it is in critical condition and quite possibly circling the drain. There are many more churches out there that are at least slightly…"
Sep 12, 2009
daniel cash replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"If it makes you feel better, Rick, I'll add, "Hang'em high!" Only kidding of course. So I guess it doesn't really make you feel better at all..."
Sep 12, 2009
Gerald (Jerry) Jackson replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
""...How we respond to them is also a matter of worship."I love this statement Roger. We should always keep in mind our every action is an act of worship. the only question is WHO is the object of our worship. God Bless all and I will be…"
Sep 12, 2009
justme replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Thanks for the back up Ken I appreciate it. To many God wanna be's here with their judging of me. I was just looking for some oponions and help with the situation at my former Church is all. Thanks again"
Sep 12, 2009
Minister King David Cason III replied to justme's discussion 'Should my Church's Praise and Worship Leader be benched?????'
"Sin is already judged by God... some churches struggle is because they want to be somewhat lilke the world...tolerant of shortcomings...welll we all struggle ,but Jesus died and when we get a true understand of what happend at Calvary there is no…"
Sep 12, 2009

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At 2:40am on September 10, 2009, Junjie said…
Hi! Welcome to Worship the Rock! Hope to see you getting involved with the discussions here. And do check out the songs the others have uploaded, lots of great stuff! :)
 
 
 

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