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Nice Guys Finish Last?
I didn't write this. But I wish I had. One of my friends on another website posted this and I just want to share it you all here.
To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her. ....
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.
Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...
To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because thats how he rolls.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her. ....
To every guy that she cried in front of...
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes.....
To every guy that would give his seat up...
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.
Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...
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Comment by Junjie on January 17, 2009 at 1:14pm -
That's the whole point. Girls DON'T really want the 'nice' guys. They want REAL men, not those the feminist movement managed to brainwash when they were small kids. And that's where a lot of the ideas above came from.
Don't take my word for it. Look up James Dobson's book on raising up boys. As a father of two boys reading it sent chills down my spine, especially when I read of all the various influences trying to castrate my sons spiritually, leaving them male biologically but nowhere emotionally.
On a lighter note, one day I will record a DVD on how will Jesus Chat Up Women, and let the Bible drive the 'nice' guys to apolexy! :)
Hope I didn't offend you, David. It's just that I have strong opinions on this matter... :)
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Comment by ~Gentle Rain~ on January 19, 2009 at 7:43pm -
I have raised my boys to respect themselves and to respect women. I dont feel this is brainwashing. I feel it is giving of oneself. My husband has shown them that you can be a leading strong male role model and still have a softer side as listed above. I for one would be very proud of my boys (now both young men) if they showed half as much support and love to their spouse as is listed above. and on another note, If I had a daughter, she would be taught to love and respect the feelings of her spouse as well. Thank you for posting this.
This world could use more emotional support and less "strong men dont cry" theory
Mare
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Comment by Elizabeth Otero on April 15, 2009 at 7:27am -
In short, We are made differently. Men are like waffles and women are spaghetti. Men work in compartments like waffles; they can have a problem in one area of their life and still be able to work or play basketball. Men can separate things. On the other hand women,... are spaghetti. If we have an issue at work it intermingles with everything in our lives. We are affected emotionally and everything is a blur. We are made differently. We both have emotions we just handle them differently. The bible says "women RESPECT your husband and men LOVE your wife." Women's tendencies are to LOVE their significant other and for men even though love is vital, RESPECT is extremely IMPORTANT! Men tend to give respect to their wife when what a woman wants is Love! God knows what's up! That verse is super important for relationships!
These are just my thoughts....
Also, I know that men are not what they used to be. However, I feel we (women) are the reason for that....
hmm... any thoughts? :)
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Comment by Elizabeth Otero on April 15, 2009 at 7:29am
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Oh! For the record, I love nice guys! I don't like the struggle women go through with the "jerk" guys.
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